Appreciate your spouse often. Intentionally say thank you for the little things you do for each other not only the big things, be an appreciative spouse. Kiss your spouse often. Kiss each other every morning, sometimes before you get out of bed other times during the morning good byes. Hold hands to pray together. Intentionally take your husband’s hand or your wife’s hand and pray with each other as you leave home to work. Intentionally try to pick the strengths you spouse exhibits everyday and focus more on that. Focus on the positives and let them keep you going. Don’t forget you also have a part to play in all this.